I have contributed to the community of disc and public for years.
I have no problem helping build community. Lost and found is not community. It is a natural consequence of poor choices on the individual's part.
It's not bad parenting. It's instilling morals into individuals then allowing them to make choices. The fact that you assume parenting is the reason for my choice, is pretty telling about yourself. Parenting can only do so much. Individuals must be responsible for their actions. Your parents told you to lock your car door. You don't. Your car is broken into. Bad parenting? Come on...
Someone blows a tire on the road. They have a spare but need assistance getting a lug nut off. That's help, and I'm happy to provide assistance. The same person blows a tire, has no spare and no jack. That is a natural consequence that they have now imposed on themselves. Why do I need to stop on the side of the road, with high-speed traffic, to help? If I'm not in a hurry somewhere, maybe I stop. I've got a family at home, do I risk my well-being for someone else's poor choices? Personal decision.
Do give individuals who lost a disc the opportunity to reclaim what is theirs, yes. Do I need to make it as easy as possible for the person who gave up, absolutely not? That is MY choice. If you don't like my choice, don't let me find your ****.
If you want to be mad, you better start with yourself. You're the one who lost it, not me.:|