I obviously know nothing about your situation. But if you have to ask this question on a disc golf forum... 
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Help with letting gf let me play
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Keller
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Friday night Sh!ts and giggles drunk troll post?
If not, you need to grow a pair. Or at least ask "her" to take the jar that holds them out of her jewelry box and show them to you.
If not, you need to grow a pair. Or at least ask "her" to take the jar that holds them out of her jewelry box and show them to you.
I usually go while she is sleeping. (works nightshifts). Otherwise, I just do some chores around the house before springing it on her. I can't think DW has objected but maybe once when we had other plans I had forgotten about.
I agree, if its a GF, then time to redefine the relationship as it doesn't sound like something that is gonna end well.
I agree, if its a GF, then time to redefine the relationship as it doesn't sound like something that is gonna end well.
JasonVista
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Beg for forgiveness not permission. Or leave her. Disc golf will always be there for you.
1111 the devil is here. RUN!!!
Thunder94
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I deleted a long "life story" post.
Do what makes you happy, life is short.
The end.
Do what makes you happy, life is short.
The end.
Improbably
Eagle Member
Keep her and do whatever she says. Take satisfaction in knowing you jumped on the grenade and other disc golfers are safe.
Will Burke
Par Member
Hard to say with out knowing situation. Before kid I'd just encourage her to go have her time and go play while she was out. Post kid it requires more planning and more money. And if all you're getting is a "look" sounds like you don't have much of a problem at all.
Haha this
damagedLIVER
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Every now and then (weekly?), spend a day with her.
Do things that she enjoys and just enjoy her company.
There is a reason you both got together in the first place, right?
You do get along?
If you guys don't have much money, talk it over and see if there are things to do that don't cost much. I have found that women often trade your money for time. If you don't give them some quality time, they'll just spend your money instead.
In my experience, give her what she wants (quality time), and she'll give you the time to play disc golf.
Keep working at it.
Do things that she enjoys and just enjoy her company.
There is a reason you both got together in the first place, right?
You do get along?
If you guys don't have much money, talk it over and see if there are things to do that don't cost much. I have found that women often trade your money for time. If you don't give them some quality time, they'll just spend your money instead.
In my experience, give her what she wants (quality time), and she'll give you the time to play disc golf.
Keep working at it.
Pay so much attention to her (in that most fun of ways) that she wants you to go play.
Either way, you win.
Either way, you win.
tomdizzlefizzle
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Go after work and tell her you're working overtime.
That "look" you're talking about is never going to get any better. Go have a cup of coffee with her mother and you'll know what you're in for in the future.
There was a reason she was attracted to you when you met. Explain to here nicely, if you want the relationship to continue, that in order for her to stay attracted to you, she has to let you be you.
Lots of women out there get with a guy then try to change them killing the very attractive part of why they got together in the first place..>>> which then kills the relationship.
If she doesn't get that then move on but don't wish for her to change the way she views disc golf, it ain't gonna happen. No reason to drive yourself nuts kissing her ass either, it will just lead to other control problems which it sounds like she already has:wall::doh:
Bottom line, if she has a hard time seeing you happy doing ANYTHING outside your relationship.......say sorry politely and RUN like hell.
There was a reason she was attracted to you when you met. Explain to here nicely, if you want the relationship to continue, that in order for her to stay attracted to you, she has to let you be you.
Lots of women out there get with a guy then try to change them killing the very attractive part of why they got together in the first place..>>> which then kills the relationship.
If she doesn't get that then move on but don't wish for her to change the way she views disc golf, it ain't gonna happen. No reason to drive yourself nuts kissing her ass either, it will just lead to other control problems which it sounds like she already has:wall::doh:
Bottom line, if she has a hard time seeing you happy doing ANYTHING outside your relationship.......say sorry politely and RUN like hell.
BirdieMachine
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You should like her whipping boy. Tell her you are going to play disc golf and dinner better be ready when you get home.
ryanwilli7
Par Member
Is it just you and her or are kids involved as well. I get the look when I want to go, but its more because we have four kids. If its just her she can get over it. Otherwise try to agree on a time/s that you both agree on. Also point out the stuff you let her do that you think is pointless. Good luck.
threevok
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Jump up and down and whine at the front door and if she opens it run like the wind. When she catches you shake your butt and act all happy and out of breath. She will forgive you. Repeat as needed.
SonicGuy
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This. All day. But then you have the problem of where the additional money went. And if your wife acts like this then I'm sure she pours over the bank account. So you need to say you need to go in for unpaid training or some work related charity thingy. Or divert cash from your secret bank account and say it was the overtime cash. Bottom line is lie lie lie.
