And this also another reason I am trying to not get a competitive attitude with disc golf. I want it to remain fun and not something that will cause me frustration. When I first started to play ball golf, it was supposed to be just a means to hang out with the guys for a few hours. After a month or two that turned into going to the range every night, living and breathing golf so that I could whip the rest of the guys on the course. The joking stopped and it was just nothing but concentration on the course. I want to keep it free and loose while playing disc golf. Yea, sure, I would love to be able to throw better. But if I don't ever improve, than it's all good because I am hanging out with my son and I am sure that will be more important to him than what score I shot on a hole.
And that's the rub.
Like anything you spend any amount of time on, keeping it
fun is the main thing. When you stop enjoying the it -- whatever the sport or pastime may be -- that's when you should hang it up and wait for the urge to return. I've been in the same situation as you with ball golf, Colonel. Grew up hitting the links. Wore out my five-dollar summer membership at my local golf course in Iowa when I was a kid. It's too expensive anymore. I know guys who will think nothing of dropping $400.00 on a new driver and then have a crappy 18 holes at a course they paid $50.00 to play one round. The appeal of disc golf (at first) was the frugality. (Not sure that's a word though.) It's cheap and competition within it activates the same endorphins that ball golf does....and without the hefty price tag.
"Fun" means many things to many people. I never played competitive ball golf, but I loved the time I spent across the chessboard with a like-minded woodpusher. But the great thing about disc golf is that you're not necessarily competing against a human opponent; your best competitor is yourself. Your best score. Your prettiest, most accurate throw. And, if you're lucky, the replication of that beautiful ace of which you were the only witness.
Your son has the right attitude about the game. The question is will he keep it? Competition can enhance that wonderful, cavalier attitude with the right perspective, but it can also make one a jaded, dejected individual who loathes the sport and those who play it. And that's what makes competition (and parenting!) hard.
Your attitude is the only thing you can control, but you and your son definitely have the right ones. I think you'll find that competitive disc golf is not only fun, but inclusive and rewarding. But whether you get competitive or not is irrelevant....as long as you're enjoying it that's the only thing that matters. "To each his own," I say.
Hope I didn't come off as preachy, but it always inspires me to re-evaluate my own attitude towards things when I see people with the right ones. Thanks for the perspective, brother....and I hope to see you and your son out on the course one day!