The core group of players I normally play with all are competitive. We all like to see each other do well,but here is the catch. We have been playing together for so many years we also work each other. Trying to get into one anothers head. Here is an example. One friend challenged me for my bag tag. I had tag #2(and is one few coveted gold colored tags in our bag tag deal) and it was killing him. On one of the first few holes, he released a pretty sweet looking drive, after it went about 250 ft I yelled "HIT SOMETHING", and it did. The whole group was laughing including him. A few holes later, he ended up in some serious shule, and had a blind approach shot. He went long into some thick trees, and said "that didn't sound good". I said quite loudly, "sounds like gold to me". I would only do this with this group of guys, like I said after years of playing together, we root for each other, but rib each other as well. We all have a blast, others who have played on our card just shake their head laughing and tell us we are brutal, but they realize it's truly all in good fun.