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Is disc golf SO male-oriented that no one has even thought of the only actual solution?
Get her hooked on it.
Duh!
Get her hooked on it.
Duh!
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You can say I'll get you a nice diamond ring if you rethink that thought. Women always like diamonds.
Has she ever played before? Does she have any idea what disc golf actually is? If the answers are yes then she really needs to rethink what she wants out of you marriage.
^^^^^^^see first quoteGrab her a Lat64 Diamond it will be way cheaper!
I'd talk to her. I have no idea what it is like to have a wife that complains about the time I take to play disc golf (and believe me I play about 3 times as much as you do), but my wife also plays most rounds with me and is a 878 rated player.....she even out throws and out plays some of the people we play with. If you enjoy playing (and for god sakes if the kids like to play) then she should really figure out a way to compromise. Unless there are other reasons you're not telling us......like your ex girlfriend is disc golfer, or the hot neighbors backyard backs up to the disc golf course yada yada yada.
Is disc golf SO male-oriented that no one has even thought of the only actual solution?
Get her hooked on it.
Duh!
2)Perhaps there's a deeper issue than just disc golf. Is your wife overwhelmed? Without getting into the situation a lot more, I would say take some time to show her how much she/family means to you. This likely isn't a permanent criticism. One cool "unbeatable hand" (poker), my wife told me about (she's a marital and family therapist) is for a husband-in-trouble to do something really nice for his family every single day for 30 days. However, that's more for a husband trying to save a marriage... Eff, I don't know dude, I'll ask my wife if you want me to. PM me if you want.
She popped out three kids for you, man. She took your name. She left a lot of other good things to spend the rest of her life with you. It's good you're taking her seriously. I have two thoughts on this:
1) If I had three kids I probably wouldn't be disc golfing very much either. I don't have any kids, but once I do, I imagine my exercise/free time will be at home before the kids get up/before work and my free time fun will be with my kids and wife. Disc golf is way less important than family. What isn't? So, put dg on hold for a while.
2) Are you in trouble? Perhaps there's a deeper issue than just disc golf. Is your wife overwhelmed? Without getting into the situation a lot more, I would say take some time to show her how much she/family means to you. This likely isn't a permanent criticism. One cool "unbeatable hand" (poker), my wife told me about (she's a marital and family therapist) is for a husband-in-trouble to do something really nice for his family every single day for 30 days. However, that's more for a husband trying to save a marriage... Eff, I don't know dude, I'll ask my wife if you want me to. PM me if you want.
Simply sounds like she is jealous and feels left out, you are out having fun and she isn't. I would tell her she better get use to it because it's not changing. This is your hobby, not hers.
If I were you, I'd say: "Look, I'm not out until all hours of the night drinking with loose women and hanging out with men of questionable morals. I'm playing disc golf, which I've invited you to play with me. It's cheap, it's fun, and it doesn't take a lot of time. After all, I only play twice a week....it's not like I'm out every single day, ignoring you and the kids and shirking my responsibilities at home. So unless you have a concern that you haven't raised yet -- like your dad was beaten to death with a disc golf bag full of 180g Rocs and you have a psychosomatic aversion to the game -- then you need to give your whining a rest. Or at least give me a reasonable argument as to why you think I should cool it with disc golf. Until then, my 'exercise routine' (regardless of how useless you think it is) is not going to change."
Just my two cents, brother, but sometimes giving them a little perspective is all it takes.
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