... the player with the most points should win, if only one player decides to play all 6 then why shouldnt they be rewarded for playing all of them, in the case of this year 2 of the ladies played them all and yet the one who played best in all 6 didnt win...
The NT points winner is based on performance not endurance. As explained earlier, based on your position, you are saying that a player who plays six of the events finishing 5th in all events somehow outperforms a player that only plays five of the events while that player finished 1st in all five events.
Player A = five 1st place finishes = 500 points (5 * 100pts)
Player B = six 5th place finishes = 510 points (6 * 85pts)
Can you honestly tell me that Player B outperformed Player A? Player B never won an event, never finished in the top 4, never made it to a final 9, but because Player B played more events than Player A, then somehow that makes Player B the winner?
I'll take it one step further. In the past there have been 9 NT events in one year. Let's say for example:
Player A wins 8 events but didn't play one of the nine events.
Player A = 800 points (8 * 100pts)
Player B plays all nine events, finishing third in all of those events.
Player B = 819 points (9 * 91pts)
Again your position in this scenario is that Player B who has zero title wins, somehow outperforms Player A who has 8 title wins. You are weighing your position more towards a player's endurance than performance. How you can honestly say that a player who has 8 of 9 title wins is outperformed by a player with not one single win, not even one 2nd place finish?
Now, what you are really talking about is overall performance. And that is rewarded to the Player of the Year. But this award doesn't even take into account total score of all events played. I do understand your position, but I don't think you will find many, if any measurable amount, that will agree with it.