I am the father of two boys, and there is no way I would bring my 2.5 y/o along for a tournament. Casual rounds with buddies? Sure! But, no, not in a competitive tournament environment where people are paying to be there.
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Sadly, most two year olds are a courtesy violation waiting to happen. Not the kid's fault. They're two for Pete's sake. But responsible parenting, and living, isn't always easy to come by.
In my experience the 2 year olds are great. It's the 3 year olds that go nuts. Terrible twos, I don't think so.
I'll have to disagree. His child is an extension of him and he brought him along. Therefore he should be held liable for his actions. As in warnings and strokes if it came down to it.
This isn't about whether or not a player should be liable for the actions an individual who is considered an extension of a player, it is, in the first place, about whether or not a player should be liable for the actions of any and every spectator who is NOT an extension of the player but merely following his or her card and cheering for the player, and in the second place, about how low or high the bar distinguishing specators who are extensions of a player and spectators who aren't should be: is cheering for Player A more enthusiastically than Players B, C, and D sufficient grounds to make Spectator X an extension of Player A? What about wearing a "Player A" shirt/hat? Carrying a "Player A"-autographed disc/mini? Waving a "Player A" towel? Talking with Player A between holes?
Again, unless and until the PDGA starts issuing official specator passes to players to hand out to their "crew" to distinguish them from random fanboy/girl who just showed up, they should not be responsible for their specators' actions since a player has no way of controlling or restricting the actions of fans who show up to watch/support him or her.
Would thou TD have to knight thy toddler as caddy?
If the toddler is PDGA approved, passes the flex test, under the weight limit, etc, I don't see how you couldn't play a tourney with it.
If the toddler is PDGA approved, passes the flex test, under the weight limit, etc, I don't see how you couldn't play a tourney with it.
Sorry for reviving an old post. We deal with this almost weekly. We have a particular member who despite knowing that his kids are a distraction, continues to bring them to Wednesday night league.
I see several problems with this even at a non sanctioned event like a league night. If you want to go out and play a casual round with a buddy that is one thing, but if there is an organized group, leave the kids home.
1. A stray disc that would give one of us a huge gash or knot on the head could easily kill or severely injure a toddler. Even if the child is behind the group, a stray disc from another group could hit them, especially on tight courses. So there is that safety issue.
2. Knowing the toddler is on the hole next to mine has made me consciously and subconsciously alter my shot before. For example instead of throwing a big hyzer that might sweep over the fairway the other group is playing. I will try to throw a straighter shot. Or I might just shank it and throw it farther left than I had intended to be safe.
3. Even if the parent can keep the toddlers from running out in front of other players, if he's constantly scolding them for getting in the way, not minding or whatever else they are doing, that is a huge distraction.
4. The kid is going to be bored senseless and be whining about when they can go home or go play on the playground or go get an icecream etc... I would be feeling sorry for the kid. distraction.
5. If the kids are restless and not minding, chances are the dad (or mom) is not going to be on to of their game. They will become frustrated with themselves and not be in the greatest of moods. They might even blame the kids for the terrible game, causing more "awkward uncomfortable moments".
6. Even well behaved kids will slow the group down.
7. Finally. The entire group does a collective sigh (he brought them again?) when they see him walk up with his kids. In our group, it's gotten so bad that half of the league has just stopped playing. This dad knows how everyone feels, but comes anyway.
I love kids, but an organized league is no place for them. Would you let your toddler stand next to you while you play right field at a softball game? would you let them on the court if you played a basketball game? No they would be on the sidelines. And they would probably have another parent watching them. Out of the way from the action.
Bottom line is if you can't find a babysitter, leave them at home.
What is this guy's reasoning for brining his child?