I don't confront people because I am too old for that s**t. Here is what happened to my brother and I:
We were playing at a course near downtown Houston that is located in a prodomently black neighborhood. Before I ever played this course, I asked the local club about this course, because it is right off of MLK Rd. Everyone said it was a safe course to play.
I had played this course many times and had never had a problem. It was Sunday morning about 11:30 and it was a nice sunny day. The way the course runs, is #16 gets really close to one of the parking lots. Some young punks (not white) were standing near their car was we were nearing the #16 basket. They were playing their rap music, when they saw us get near, they starting rapping something like "dumb ass white boys with their Frisbees" and stuff like that.
We looked at each other and just kept playing, but it was a little distracting. We went over to the #17 tee, and took our shots , but we were a little pissed. I must say these guys had some balls, because my brother is 6'2 and I am 6'3 and we both weigh about 280lbs, so we are not small guys. These were some skinny punks probably no older than 18.
At the end of the round my brother and I both decided we would never play this course again, and I have not been back since. I might go back one day and play early in the morning, but that would be it. I was really pissed about being harassed. I play disc golf to relax, and when it stops being fun, I am going to take up tennis again.
I had thought about saying something to the guys, but I did not feel like fighting that day, and knowing that neighborhood, there was a good chance they might have had a gun or weapon in that car. Here in the Houston area, I have heard many stories in the news, were people got into screaming matches and someone pulls out a gun. I would rather be the bigger man, and just walk away. Plus I think it pissed them off that we just ignored them. It made them look stupid.