When I saw the title, I thought the topic was about the times peers have pressured into a shot you weren't planning on. I've pressured peers to throw a certain disc or line. While I have all the best intentions, the suggestion often gets in their head, creating doubts about their original idea, and whether they take the advice or not, the results are rarely good. I want to help them consider alternatives to expand the shots in their arsenal, but telling them "you should've thrown..." isn't usually very well received either, especially after a bad throw.
I'd like to think I would be open to suggestions and would be willing to consider others' ideas. The few times I can remember someone mentioning something, I usually had their idea in the back of my mind already. I can't really remember a time when anyone ever got in my head with advice, or when I secretly wanted to blame someone for their suggestion. That's because for me personally, I blame myself for the things I do, not others for "making me." Having said that, I'm afraid I might be that guy for others.
I should start another thread, but I was curious about others views on this.
Do you make suggestions on the course?
What is the best way to offer help?
Where does this practice cross the line?
My goal is to help others improve, not play head games, but my fear is my advice could be misperceived as unsportsmanlike. Maybe I should just shut the hell up and eliminate the risk.