Barry doesn't need my forgiveness. Barry needs his own forgiveness. He has done nothing to hurt me or wrong me in any way. There is nothing other than maybe be a bad ambassador for the game for an instant that needs forgiveness. I believe it happened on the last hole of the first round so I highly doubt it adversely affected the other players in his group.
They say in the game of golf it is best to have a short memory. Another way of saying it is the only shot that matters is the one you're about to take. There is no usefulness in obsessing about a bad shot on hole 4 when you're playing hole 12. Many players have high expectations of themselves and expect to make 30 foot putts every time. While this is a realistic expectation for a 1000+ rated touring player, being able to mentally overcome your own failings is an attained skill that is worthwhile striving to attain. Apparently this is a work in progress for Barry or a skill that ranks low on his priorities.
I'll shed some personal info on myself to reveal my perspective. I am no longer a young player. I started playing in the 80s and like many on this board was addicted and often played 12-15 rounds a week, had to play every tournament and purchase every new disc that came out. Come tournament day I had high expectations and put lots of pressure on myself to score well.
When I had a fluke rollaway or an unfortunate kick into OB I would come unglued mentally. I never kicked my bag or punched anything or blamed others for my mistakes but I didn't play my best after becoming unhinged.
Well I've aged and matured since those times in the 80s and early 90s. I've sustained many injuries and ailments to the point physically I don't have the distance I did in my 20s. However I play much smarter am more disciplined, play my own game and am able to stay composed much better. Often times in the past 5-10 years I've been competing in Open and been grouped with players much younger than myself that have far superior physical ability. Yet I've beaten many of these guys that can outdrive me by 100 feet. If they had a better mental game that wouldn't happen. I bank on others making poor decisions and even losing their composure at times. I benefit from their meltdowns.
My point is if Barry Schultz can shred course records and consistently be among the highest rated players in the world with all his mental meltdowns, just imagine the caliber of golf he'd be capable of if he could overcome his temper and improve mentally.